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On Thu, 22 Jun 2000 22:22:40 GMT, "ConnieD" <nom…@tebenet.nl
wrote: Hello one and all, I do hope you will be able to help me with the bombshell that dropped on me yesterday!
I’m sorry.
Firstly my name is Connie, a Brit living in The Netherlands.
Hi Connie the Brit.
I don’t even know how to start this one honestly so forgive me if I seem to jump about a bit, I don’t even understand it yet.
never you mind that – I am the Queen of Rambling. :)
Foaming urine
Whoosh. that’s a list. "Foaming Urine?" I assume this is due to protein in the urine as proteins do have a tendency to "foam".
I NEED advice on this condition please and also some support if there is any around. It knocked me for 6 with the heart problems but this has taken the wind out of my sails. I am NOT giving up though, too much to do and too little time to fit it all in but if any of you can supply advice I would be extremely grateful.
Well, the best advice I can give at this moment is to join in the discussion here, read whatever you can that is *within* the last 5 years, check into The Lupus Book by Daniel Wallace (an excellent and easy to read resource) and be prepared to have *no* diagnosis as much as *a* diagnosis. many of us have the textbook symptoms but no diagnosis because of our labs being semi-normal or our doctors being very conservative. Most importantly, Lupus is not a death sentence. It is not fun to have and yes, about 10% of all cases involve major organ damage and of that 10% about 60% will have a significantly shortened life-span. But for the majority of lupus patients, life-span is about average though the quality of life can suck at times.
I don’t want sympathy, I have that from my family, I am not even angry just perplexed and ignorant.
You certainly don’t seem ignorant – and the fact that you are actively seeking both support and information says loads about your intelligence IMO. The support here is wonderful as it is on other lupus forums. I linger here and the Hamline University Lupus-L mailing list which is an excellent source of support *for me*. Everyone is different. I would highly recommend reading our FAQ - Section five has a gazillion URLs on the WWW that will give you very up-to-date info as well as various resources for support. Especially, note the Lupus Foundation of America sites and three "Brit" sites – St. Thomas Lupus Trust, Andy’s Lupus Pages and Joanne’s Lupus pages. there are numerous other excellent sites and many are personal stories that might be of value you to you in understanding the emotions we tend to go through upon diagnosis or non-diagnosis as the case may be. If you do *not* get a diagnosis, understand that this does not mean that there is nothing wrong and that you can just go about your business. Symptoms still need to be heeded and treated as I imagine your doctor will do. Sometimes that isn’t the case though so you should be aware of this as well. I would prefer that nothing be wrong – but you don’t want to ignore potential risks and many people have lupus-like symptoms without every developing a full diagnosis. The faq is located at http://www.ghg.net/schwerpt/aslfaq20.htm or http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus/katfaq.htm Past that, if you have any specific questions feel free to post them here! Someone can usually give you an answer or point you in the right direction. Take care, KCat P’d and e’d by intent
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<<TOGETHER we went through the symptoms of lupus and OK it was reading up from a medical text book, he seems to think I have SLE . We talked at length about the possibilities of this being a diagnosis and he says that as I have the following conditions there is a good chance that I do infact have this condition.
Sounds like you’re really going through a lot right now. You didn’t ask for any sympathy, but you have it nonetheless. Anyway, you asked for information. The FAQs to which Kcat referred are great and I do recommend you check them out. I also wanted to give you a few websites to start with since starting with too many can be overwhelming at first. Sandra Lupus Foundation of America (Lots of current information and support groups.) http://internet-plaza.net/lupus/ Lupus Around the World (ONE OF MY FAVORITES! Great search function, Ask a Doc, and support groups.) http://www.mtio.com/lupus North East Lupus Group Homepage (Andy Taylor’s Page) (One of the best lupus websites around.) http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus/index.htm About.com (Literally tons of information and links on many other topics as well.) http://lupus.about.com/health/lupus/ Articles (A huge collection of articles on lupus written by rheumatologists.) http://slc.quik.com/longhair/lupus/articles.html SjSWorld http://www.msworld.org/sjogrens/sjogrens.htm People with Sjogren’s http://dry.org/community.html
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welcome to our daydream… has anyone seen the following site… http://healingwell.com/lupus/ "SCroyle909" <scroyle…@aol.com
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<<TOGETHER we went through the symptoms of lupus and OK it was reading up
from
a medical text book, he seems to think I have SLE . We talked at length about the possibilities of this being a diagnosis and he says that as I
have
the following conditions there is a good chance that I do infact have this condition. Sounds like you’re really going through a lot right now. You didn’t ask
for
any sympathy, but you have it nonetheless. Anyway, you asked for information. The FAQs to which Kcat referred are
great
and I do recommend you check them out. I also wanted to give you a few websites to start with since starting with too many can be overwhelming at first. Sandra Lupus Foundation of America (Lots of current information and support
groups.)
http://internet-plaza.net/lupus/ Lupus Around the World (ONE OF MY FAVORITES! Great search function, Ask a
Doc,
and support groups.) http://www.mtio.com/lupus North East Lupus Group Homepage (Andy Taylor’s Page) (One of the best
lupus
websites around.) http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus/index.htm About.com (Literally tons of information and links on many other topics as well.) http://lupus.about.com/health/lupus/ Articles (A huge collection of articles on lupus written by
rheumatologists.)
http://slc.quik.com/longhair/lupus/articles.html SjSWorld http://www.msworld.org/sjogrens/sjogrens.htm People with Sjogren’s http://dry.org/community.html
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ConnieD wrote: …if any of you can supply advice… Thanks in advance and apologies if this was long<
If you spend time reading all of the posts in this group for a while, you will learn quite a bit about disease management. Each of us has been affected by lupus in our own way. You’ll draw your own conclusions (and strength) from reading this and other resources. My best advice at this time would be for you to be as good to your self as possible by listening to your body – it knows more than your brain does. Of course the a advice will change as you progress through this diagnosis. Apologies are not necessary for long posts. THIS is the place for freedom of expression regarding lupus issues. You’ll find a range of people here who have respect for each other, and a lot of empathy, too. to our health kelly
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Thanks to all who have posted or mailed privately I do appreceiate it very, very much I assure you. I am still working my way through all the info you have kindly forwarded along and at the moment the realization that "IT" may be SLE is still trying to knock it’s way into my acceptance as well as that of my family. Thank heavens they have been through the past 20 years with me and different difficulties otherwise I would have been lost. I don’t know what is worse, the waiting for the results or the reading of what may lay ahead BUT I remain determined that I will do my utmost not to allow this to bring me down to it’s level should the outcome not be what I would like. Two weeks are a long time to wait but I shall be able to employ that time in learning—something I thought I had ended a few years ago but life is full of little surprises isn’t it? I know, I am rambling, I just want to ask so much and don’t know where to begin until I have that diagnosis or with good fortune not, I should imagine that each one on this group knows just what I am feeling at the present time. Keep that smile ready for anyone who asks "How are you then"? Just reply ‘Oh not too bad, cheers" yet feeling that this is something that I have to use to make me put my house in order and I don’t mean by cleaning it either. Yesterday my DH and I sat reading different articles about the condition together, now that is a first, usually it is me reading them on my own but this is something that we have to go through together and hopefully be able to cope with as we have done with the other medical conditions. The most difficult part for me personally is knowing that my 2 DS’s and my darling grandsons may run the risk of developing something from me which I wouldn’t want them to have. My oldest son, 28 is already arthritic , gone through the removal of his patella and now nursing a dislocated shoulder from lifting one of his babies out of a car seat. Our grandsons were both diagnosed with asthma a couple of weeks ago on the same day, one is aged 5 months the other 16 months and I feel that I have in some part contributed to this and that is hard to accept. Was this from me direct, is my son arthritic because I am, well I have my own conclusions but if nothing else I shall be able to help them through the hard times if any lie ahead, after all come August it will be 20 years since I was first diagnosed with arthritic conditions so I have some experiences to draw upon. I wish you all wellness and may the pain you may have tomorrow be less than what you endured today. Best wishes ConnieD. "MADKELLY" <madke…@aol.com
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ConnieD wrote: …if any of you can supply advice… Thanks in advance and apologies if this was long< If you spend time reading all of the posts in this group for a while, you
will
learn quite a bit about disease management. Each of us has been affected
by
lupus in our own way. You’ll draw your own conclusions (and strength)
from
reading this and other resources. My best advice at this time would be for you to be as good to your self as possible by listening to your body – it knows more than your brain does.
Of
course the a advice will change as you progress through this diagnosis. Apologies are not necessary for long posts. THIS is the place for freedom
of
expression regarding lupus issues. You’ll find a range of people here who
have
respect for each other, and a lot of empathy, too. to our health kelly
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On Sat, 24 Jun 2000 15:08:24 GMT, "ConnieD" <nom…@tebenet.nl
wrote: I know, I am rambling, I just want to ask so much and don’t know where to begin until I have that diagnosis or with good fortune not, I should imagine that each one on this group knows just what I am feeling at the present time.
pretty much, hon. I was in sort of the opposite situation… I had been sick for several years and had many of the clinical signs (few of them seen by a doctor – several doctors literally *refused* to take my temperature when I sat in their office saying I feel feverish *now*) anyway… so I was struggling to find *some* answer. I don’t/didn’t want it to be autoimmune disease but I knew it my heart it was. I usually understand my own body pretty well. So getting no answer for a long time left me feeling stupid, crazy, etc. OTOH, I now hope I will never get a full SLE dx. That would mean by my doc’s POV that my organs have become involved and that would be scary like what you are going through.
Keep that smile ready for anyone who asks "How are you then"? Just reply ‘Oh not too bad, cheers" yet feeling that this is something that I have to use to make me put my house in order and I don’t mean by cleaning it either.
It’s hard to smile all the time when you often feel like crud. I believe the Brits are better at it than most of us Yanks (okay.. not necessarily *smiling* but not whining. <G
) Yesterday my DH and I sat reading different articles about the condition together, now that is a first, usually it is me reading them on my own but this is something that we have to go through together and hopefully be able to cope with as we have done with the other medical conditions.
It is good that he is reading with you and trying to understand. it will be especially important in times of flares or symptoms that might incapacitate you temporarily or otherwise. I used to get "You’re just under stress" or "you just need a good hot bath". After my hubby read a couple of books and URLs he realized that what was going on was simply not that simple.
He still says "maybe a hot bath would help" but he doesn’t blow off my complaints as emotional. He’s very supportive and is the one that keeps me from coming off all my meds because he worries I’ll flare – and I’m just sick of meds.
The most difficult part for me personally is knowing that my 2 DS’s and my darling grandsons may run the risk of developing something from me which I wouldn’t want them to have.
well, I understand this fear. My daughter is having some problems herself and apparently inherited her grandmother’s hypothyroidism at a very early age. She sleeps a *lot* and has daily low-grade fevers but her ANA is only 1:80 so the docs are just treating her with tylenol or naproxen for now. I have given her 5 mg Lortab at times (with the doc’s approval) when her pain is beyond tolerance. But she hates the "fuzzy" feeling they give her. BUT, the facts are that your grandkids and kids stand only a barely slighter than the normal population’s chance of developing SLE. The chance of developing *some* autoimmune disease are probably statistically higher but they’re just now really trying to figure all that out.
My oldest son, 28 is already arthritic , gone through the removal of his patella and now nursing a dislocated shoulder from lifting one of his babies out of a car seat. Our grandsons were both diagnosed with asthma a couple of weeks ago on the same day, one is aged 5 months the other 16 months
one thing about this. My daughter has asthma (as did I, as does my sister, as does my mom but she calls it "a cough"). Other than my sister, the rest of us have atypical asthma – that is attacks rarely include wheezing but instead are characterized by an uncontrollable cough and of course, loss of oxygen. My daughter seems to have outgrown much of her asthma – she can still get the wind knocked out of her about once a year if she gets complacent (for instance, she cleaned her bathroom closet out last year and I didn’t even think about the mold growing in there and she is very allergic to mold). So the little ones might be quite able to control their asthma – new inhalants can do wonders and have very little systemic effect so are safe for young people.
shall be able to help them through the hard times if any lie ahead,
Did you read the section on Lupus genetics in the FAQ? It explains a lot of current thought in this regard. Also, there are probably quite a few articles availble through Medscape or Pubmed that detail what is known up to this point as well as theories.
I wish you all wellness and may the pain you may have tomorrow be less than what you endured today. Best wishes ConnieD.
thank you… that is a good "wish". Take good care of yourself. I’m glad you are comfortable with sharing this with us. KCat
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I NEED advice on this condition please and also some support if there is any around.
Check out my Lupus homepage, it has links to many helpful Lupus sites that are great for new lupies. It is http://hometown.aol.com/lbit18/. I hope this is of some help to you. God bless! Patricia :-)
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Hi Sandra, I tried your link : Articles (A huge collection of articles on lupus written by rheumatologists.) http://slc.quik.com/longhair/lupus/articles.html and couldn’t get to the site. The screen displayed the message that the site is down or doesn’t exist or whatever. I tried the sic.quik.com/ site itself but couldn’t get to the longhair/lupus/articles.html part of it. It sounds great. Do you think it’s down for updating? Take care, Barbara SCroyle909 <scroyle…@aol.com
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Anyway, you asked for information. The FAQs to which Kcat referred are
great
and I do recommend you check them out. I also wanted to give you a few websites to start with since starting with too many can be overwhelming at first. Sandra Lupus Foundation of America (Lots of current information and support
groups.)
http://internet-plaza.net/lupus/ Lupus Around the World (ONE OF MY FAVORITES! Great search function, Ask a
Doc,
and support groups.) http://www.mtio.com/lupus North East Lupus Group Homepage (Andy Taylor’s Page) (One of the best
lupus
websites around.) http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus/index.htm About.com (Literally tons of information and links on many other topics as well.) http://lupus.about.com/health/lupus/ Articles (A huge collection of articles on lupus written by
rheumatologists.)
http://slc.quik.com/longhair/lupus/articles.html SjSWorld http://www.msworld.org/sjogrens/sjogrens.htm People with Sjogren’s http://dry.org/community.html
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Sorry for the problem accessing those articles. You should still be able to access them through this website though. They may well have updated those articles and changed the format and headings. I just checked though, and the information is there in the website. What is Antiphospholipid Syndrome? (THE BEST!!) http://members.aol.com/AMAmail/Anti.html Sandra
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writes Sorry for the problem accessing those articles. You should still be able to access them through this website though. They may well have updated those articles and changed the format and headings. I just checked though, and the information is there in the website. What is Antiphospholipid Syndrome? (THE BEST!!) http://members.aol.com/AMAmail/Anti.html
You could also have a look at <URL: http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus/faqshets/faqs14.htm
and <URL: http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus/faqshets/faqs18.htm
— Andy For Austrian philately <URL: http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/austamps/
For Lupus <URL: http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus/
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Hello one and all, I do hope you will be able to help me with the bombshell that dropped on me yesterday! Firstly my name is Connie, a Brit living in The Netherlands. I have a "bit" of a problem and need advice re SLE Lupus. I don’t even know how to start this one honestly so forgive me if I seem to jump about a bit, I don’t even understand it yet. I have been suffering from swollen legs and ankles since about February and put it down to a fall I had in mid January so give it time to settle down again. The legs were really hurting and then I had two heart attacks within a month and was diagnosed with an aortic stenosis, the heart muscle and arteries thickening, cholesterol problems and angina, so I had had enough of doctors for the time being , however I visited my doctor yesterday and we had a long chat about certain concerns, my delight that my BP had dropped considerably and that my cholesterol levels had dropped from high 7 to 4.2. Then comes the whammy. I described certain symptoms to him and asked him outright if I could be tested for Lupus, with no hesitation at all he has done and I have been for the initial blood/urine tests today. TOGETHER we went through the symptoms of lupus and OK it was reading up from a medical text book, he seems to think I have SLE . We talked at length about the possibilities of this being a diagnosis and he says that as I have the following conditions there is a good chance that I do infact have this condition. RA, Plus other forms of arthritis for 20 years Skin disorders, Urticaria, Quinkes Oedema Anaphylaxis Swollen legs and feet, Partial Loss of hair, Partial Loss of memory, Heart problems, Artery problems, Lung problems, Fatigue, Allergies, Sjorgrens Syndrome. Mouth Ulcers and bleeding gums. Burning and itching legs, Foaming urine I NEED advice on this condition please and also some support if there is any around. It knocked me for 6 with the heart problems but this has taken the wind out of my sails. I am NOT giving up though, too much to do and too little time to fit it all in but if any of you can supply advice I would be extremely grateful. I don’t want sympathy, I have that from my family, I am not even angry just perplexed and ignorant. I have searched around for info and despite me wanting to see contradictions that this is not a form of Lupus, I don’t seem to be able to find any. If you wish to contact me privately then please do so on siv…@tebenet.NOSPAMnl Remove NOSPAM if responding. Thanks in advance and apologies if this was long. ConnieD. http://www.egroups.com/group/Enschede_Firework_Disaster_Quilt http://pages.about.com/davis51/index.html
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