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In the mean time I regret trying to share my joy with anyone, as it has been badly received. This probably means that no one here has ever gotten a cat from a breeder, and if I want to talk about cats that I didn’t adopt I should go to another news group because my questions and comments are not welcome here… this seems a lot more like alt.cats now. Thanks to all those who have been polite, and helped me out.
Sofia, not everyone here is anti-breeder. IMO there’s nothing wrong with the choices you made. Congrats on your new kitty.
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|Ouch… Did they read the lease reneal letters? did it mention any chagnes |to the previous lease? If not, I’d think the management still had no leg |to stand on cause tehy renewed the lease that they had aggred on before. | |But, the person’s original point still stands. When the contract only says |two cats and you have three and management decides to change their mind, |you are the one that is going to have the problem, not them because |legally you signed a contract saying that you knew only two animals were |allowed, and they are under no obligation to allow you three. In the apt I live in previously, they had allowed pets with a pet deposit. On the pet deposit, and the lease there were no limits on the # of pets providing you paid the deposit. The majority of people in the complex had pets and usually that meant multiple. This did end up becoming a problem when the owner sold the building(meaning every apt needed to be inspected) and the new owner sent out and required a new lease(that specifically limited the # of pets to 1.) be signed. The funny part of it was, the apt manager came around to everyone with pets and said that if she was the one being inspected that the pets would be under the requirement. So what ended up happening is my furballs spent a day or two with friends while that went on.
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Well the shelters in my area (within 2 hours driving distance) need all the family members in your house hold to be there and fill out paper work, and also do a background check. I went to the websites and look at their adoption policies. Background check would be them calling the mgmt. office again and then me being rejected again. The cats that I mentioned that didn’t get along with other cats or dogs were from specific breed Rescues in my area. There are listings with each animal and their personality/preferences. I.e. "No Dogs" "Does not get along with other cats" were most of the ones listed. Like I said in my first post too, I would rather have a full grown cat than a kitten. I’m not the type of person that will only get a kitten or a puppy, just the opposite infact. I have never in my life had a dog from a breeder, all shelter dogs, and in one case a dog a friend of mine was going to put down cause he didn’t feel like taking care of anymore (f*cking a**hole), and I am now on my 7th dog. Although I have been around cats for long periods of time in my life, I have never personally owned one myself until a year ago, so I haven’t had much of an opportunity, minus this past year, to adopt a cat. I’m only 22 I’m sure I will adopt many in my lifetime. In the mean time I regret trying to share my joy with anyone, as it has been badly received. This probably means that no one here has ever gotten a cat from a breeder, and if I want to talk about cats that I didn’t adopt I should go to another news group because my questions and comments are not welcome here… this seems a lot more like alt.cats now. Thanks to all those who have been polite, and helped me out. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Actually the way you worded seemed like you only went to one and then from that experience drew conclusions that the rest of the shelters or local groups did not have compatable cats. I think you could have waited instead of going to a breeder. I never agree with Dom much but I can say he is correct in stating that no matter how responsible a breeder might be, that by supporting one that is one less cat or kitten in the shelter that loses a home. You say you work at shelters which is commendable but I have a hard time believing you had such a difficult time finding a cat. Remember cats are not like picking up a six pack at the store. It seems that you wanted the cat that ended up adopted and no other cat. Be glad that cat got adopted and hope that the feline went to a good home. If you really wanted to adopt a shelter cat you really should have waited as many cats are brought into shelters each day in this country (I am guessing you are in the U.S.) and I am sure that there was probably at least one cat that was brought in that gets along with other cats. I may not work at a shelter but I also know from reading and watching that I see plenty of cats that are turned in by humans to the shelters and that they always have a handfull of felines that get along with other cats. You also have to remember that cats also need to be introduced slowly into new households that already have cats so to find one that you feel is just perfect and will be instantly ok with other cats would be nice. However, cats are like people and I am sure that no matter how instant you think a new cat will take to your cats there is always one feline that will not like the newcomer or at least tolerates it. Cats are cats and going to a breeder for one is simply not the answer. Supporting breeders only adds to the problem of overpopulation and if you look at it this way, by going to a shelter you are already getting a cat or kitten from a breeder in a way as many of the felines who end up there are the result of someone who failed to be responsbile by spaying or neutering their cat. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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Don’t worry – this poster (CP) can get stuck in a groove & doesn’t budge out of it, once entrenched; happens a lot. Cathy — "Staccato signals of constant information…" ("The Boy in the Bubble") Paul Simon
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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: The scary thing about this is that it just happened at a local apartment complex : that two of my friends live in…they have big big dogs and now the management : is saying that no dogs over 40 lbs. can live there after July 30….so either my : friends have to find a new place now, not easy in a college town, almost Did their previous contract say they could have those dogs? If so the new management is either going to have to let them live there as long as their contract states or let them move out with no breaking of contract fees (as the new management broke teh contract, not them). If this is the case (which I don’t know if it is), I’d suggest your friend get a lawyer or at least fight it and tell the management that legally tehy don’t have a leg to stand on. : to do with anything. BTW, this notice to tenants came AFTER everyone signed : their lease renewal letters. Ouch… Did they read the lease reneal letters? did it mention any chagnes to the previous lease? If not, I’d think the management still had no leg to stand on cause tehy renewed the lease that they had aggred on before. But, the person’s original point still stands. When the contract only says two cats and you have three and management decides to change their mind, you are the one that is going to have the problem, not them because legally you signed a contract saying that you knew only two animals were allowed, and they are under no obligation to allow you three. Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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Depends on who you ask. I see no reason to support a breeder. Responsible as he or she may be, that’s still one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home.
But in this case, it seems it was more a case of adopting a cat from a breeder or not adopting a cat at all. Apparently this is not really a case of one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home. Look, I’ve known other people who tried to adopt at shelters, couldn’t, and then went to breeders. It’s not always so black and white. For example, I have a friend who wanted to adopt a kitten about six months after her cat died. The shelters she went to wouldn’t let her have a kitten because she works during the day. So she bought a kitten from a breeder. Maybe you think she should have agreed with the shelters’ policy and adopted an adult cat, but she didn’t want to. You can’t force people to adopt cats they don’t want. IMO, if in this case another shelter kitten didn’t get a home, it was not my friend’s fault–she tried. And I don’t really fault the shelters either–overall that rule is in the best interest of the kittens, but you can’t expect people who disagree not to go elsewhere.
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Actually the way you worded seemed like you only went to one and then from that experience drew conclusions that the rest of the shelters or local groups did not have compatable cats. I think you could have waited instead of going to a breeder. I never agree with Dom much but I can say he is correct in stating that no matter how responsible a breeder might be, that by supporting one that is one less cat or kitten in the shelter that loses a home. You say you work at shelters which is commendable but I have a hard time believing you had such a difficult time finding a cat. Remember cats are not like picking up a six pack at the store. It seems that you wanted the cat that ended up adopted and no other cat. Be glad that cat got adopted and hope that the feline went to a good home. If you really wanted to adopt a shelter cat you really should have waited as many cats are brought into shelters each day in this country (I am guessing you are in the U.S.) and I am sure that there was probably at least one cat that was brought in that gets along with other cats. I may not work at a shelter but I also know from reading and watching that I see plenty of cats that are turned in by humans to the shelters and that they always have a handfull of felines that get along with other cats. You also have to remember that cats also need to be introduced slowly into new households that already have cats so to find one that you feel is just perfect and will be instantly ok with other cats would be nice. However, cats are like people and I am sure that no matter how instant you think a new cat will take to your cats there is always one feline that will not like the newcomer or at least tolerates it. Cats are cats and going to a breeder for one is simply not the answer. Supporting breeders only adds to the problem of overpopulation and if you look at it this way, by going to a shelter you are already getting a cat or kitten from a breeder in a way as many of the felines who end up there are the result of someone who failed to be responsbile by spaying or neutering their cat. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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Well if that happened I would move… simple as that. I’m not hard up for cash (other than saving to own again). If they asked me to get rid of one of my animals I would ask them to find a new tenant… I cant deal with these bugs invading my home anyhow. I broke the lease on my last apartment cause my landlord was stealing our mail, and coming into our apartment whenever he wanted to (then writing notes for us about the garbage being too full, or the ash tray having too many butt’s in it). For 2K a month I didn’t think I deserved that. With this place if I felt I was being treated unfairly I would leave. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Yeah but here is the kicker here. This person said they only went to one shelter and then went to a breeder when their plan failed. I would have checked with other shelters and even the no-kill ones. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – : I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a : cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for : declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and : then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting : good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a : breeder in the first place. There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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The scary thing about this is that it just happened at a local apartment complex that two of my friends live in…they have big big dogs and now the management is saying that no dogs over 40 lbs. can live there after July 30….so either my friends have to find a new place now, not easy in a college town, almost impossible with a dog (or cat for that matter) or starve their dogs to hit the limit of 40 lbs. We all find this ridiculous as what the heck does 40 lbs. have to do with anything. BTW, this notice to tenants came AFTER everyone signed their lease renewal letters. I know a few years ago my apartment complex tried to ban cats in the building and found that if they did that, they would have a very empty apartment building as we all have cats. It’s so fun to walk outside to my car and have all these kitties to say hi to. take care – jackie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually.
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To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Yeah but what if the deception behind getting the cat that caused the mess? — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Yep, that pretty much covers it
Brad
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Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones).
Depends on who you ask. I see no reason to support a breeder. Responsible as he or she may be, that’s still one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home. Sethran
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: Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not : affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short : order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Heh, the one shelter I went to didn’t turn me down cause of asthma, but I’m not sure they asked though. Then again they let me take the cat home the same day (pretty much because he was already spayed, but filled out a questionnaire, they called my apt, things looked good, I got the cat.. I don’t even think I got interviewed or anything. Questionnaires are easy to lie on. Though I will say I think it was pretty good they insist on spaying and neutering the cat before it goes home. Personally I think it’s more convenient cause then it’s just part of the adoption fee and I don’t have to worry about getting them fixed). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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: I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a : cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for : declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and : then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting : good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a : breeder in the first place. There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Cathy — "Staccato signals of constant information…" ("The Boy in the Bubble") Paul Simon
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am sorry to hear about your cat but it seems very strange to me. First you got turned down for adoption for reasons of asthma and then lied about it and now say that your wife’s asthma was not affected by the cats as far as you know. I am curious as to what the shelter’s reasons were for turning you down for adoption? You didn’t seem to state what they said. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? We are not cat-free…we still have our other little bundle of joy; Cappuccino, a goofy little 5 year old tortoiseshell that keeps us content. She is lonely, but we do the best we can to help her along too. We have another month to go before we can get another cat. My wifes astham is not affected by the cats as far as we can tell. She is more affected by pollen and the heat. She is on Advair to deal with her asthma. Brad
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Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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I am sorry to hear about your cat but it seems very strange to me. First you got turned down for adoption for reasons of asthma and then lied about it and now say that your wife’s asthma was not affected by the cats as far as you know. I am curious as to what the shelter’s reasons were for turning you down for adoption? You didn’t seem to state what they said. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? We are not cat-free…we still have our other little bundle of joy; Cappuccino, a goofy little 5 year old tortoiseshell that keeps us content. She is lonely, but we do the best we can to help her along too. We have another month to go before we can get another cat. My wifes astham is not affected by the cats as far as we can tell. She is more affected by pollen and the heat. She is on Advair to deal with her asthma. Brad
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I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad
I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? Lauren =^..^= See my cats: http://www.picturetrail.com/mickey4paws/703043
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For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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: For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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In the mean time I regret trying to share my joy with anyone, as it has been badly received. This probably means that no one here has ever gotten a cat from a breeder, and if I want to talk about cats that I didn’t adopt I should go to another news group because my questions and comments are not welcome here… this seems a lot more like alt.cats now. Thanks to all those who have been polite, and helped me out.
Sofia, not everyone here is anti-breeder. IMO there’s nothing wrong with the choices you made. Congrats on your new kitty.
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|Ouch… Did they read the lease reneal letters? did it mention any chagnes |to the previous lease? If not, I’d think the management still had no leg |to stand on cause tehy renewed the lease that they had aggred on before. | |But, the person’s original point still stands. When the contract only says |two cats and you have three and management decides to change their mind, |you are the one that is going to have the problem, not them because |legally you signed a contract saying that you knew only two animals were |allowed, and they are under no obligation to allow you three. In the apt I live in previously, they had allowed pets with a pet deposit. On the pet deposit, and the lease there were no limits on the # of pets providing you paid the deposit. The majority of people in the complex had pets and usually that meant multiple. This did end up becoming a problem when the owner sold the building(meaning every apt needed to be inspected) and the new owner sent out and required a new lease(that specifically limited the # of pets to 1.) be signed. The funny part of it was, the apt manager came around to everyone with pets and said that if she was the one being inspected that the pets would be under the requirement. So what ended up happening is my furballs spent a day or two with friends while that went on.
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Well the shelters in my area (within 2 hours driving distance) need all the family members in your house hold to be there and fill out paper work, and also do a background check. I went to the websites and look at their adoption policies. Background check would be them calling the mgmt. office again and then me being rejected again. The cats that I mentioned that didn’t get along with other cats or dogs were from specific breed Rescues in my area. There are listings with each animal and their personality/preferences. I.e. "No Dogs" "Does not get along with other cats" were most of the ones listed. Like I said in my first post too, I would rather have a full grown cat than a kitten. I’m not the type of person that will only get a kitten or a puppy, just the opposite infact. I have never in my life had a dog from a breeder, all shelter dogs, and in one case a dog a friend of mine was going to put down cause he didn’t feel like taking care of anymore (f*cking a**hole), and I am now on my 7th dog. Although I have been around cats for long periods of time in my life, I have never personally owned one myself until a year ago, so I haven’t had much of an opportunity, minus this past year, to adopt a cat. I’m only 22 I’m sure I will adopt many in my lifetime. In the mean time I regret trying to share my joy with anyone, as it has been badly received. This probably means that no one here has ever gotten a cat from a breeder, and if I want to talk about cats that I didn’t adopt I should go to another news group because my questions and comments are not welcome here… this seems a lot more like alt.cats now. Thanks to all those who have been polite, and helped me out. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Actually the way you worded seemed like you only went to one and then from that experience drew conclusions that the rest of the shelters or local groups did not have compatable cats. I think you could have waited instead of going to a breeder. I never agree with Dom much but I can say he is correct in stating that no matter how responsible a breeder might be, that by supporting one that is one less cat or kitten in the shelter that loses a home. You say you work at shelters which is commendable but I have a hard time believing you had such a difficult time finding a cat. Remember cats are not like picking up a six pack at the store. It seems that you wanted the cat that ended up adopted and no other cat. Be glad that cat got adopted and hope that the feline went to a good home. If you really wanted to adopt a shelter cat you really should have waited as many cats are brought into shelters each day in this country (I am guessing you are in the U.S.) and I am sure that there was probably at least one cat that was brought in that gets along with other cats. I may not work at a shelter but I also know from reading and watching that I see plenty of cats that are turned in by humans to the shelters and that they always have a handfull of felines that get along with other cats. You also have to remember that cats also need to be introduced slowly into new households that already have cats so to find one that you feel is just perfect and will be instantly ok with other cats would be nice. However, cats are like people and I am sure that no matter how instant you think a new cat will take to your cats there is always one feline that will not like the newcomer or at least tolerates it. Cats are cats and going to a breeder for one is simply not the answer. Supporting breeders only adds to the problem of overpopulation and if you look at it this way, by going to a shelter you are already getting a cat or kitten from a breeder in a way as many of the felines who end up there are the result of someone who failed to be responsbile by spaying or neutering their cat. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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Don’t worry – this poster (CP) can get stuck in a groove & doesn’t budge out of it, once entrenched; happens a lot. Cathy — "Staccato signals of constant information…" ("The Boy in the Bubble") Paul Simon
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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: The scary thing about this is that it just happened at a local apartment complex : that two of my friends live in…they have big big dogs and now the management : is saying that no dogs over 40 lbs. can live there after July 30….so either my : friends have to find a new place now, not easy in a college town, almost Did their previous contract say they could have those dogs? If so the new management is either going to have to let them live there as long as their contract states or let them move out with no breaking of contract fees (as the new management broke teh contract, not them). If this is the case (which I don’t know if it is), I’d suggest your friend get a lawyer or at least fight it and tell the management that legally tehy don’t have a leg to stand on. : to do with anything. BTW, this notice to tenants came AFTER everyone signed : their lease renewal letters. Ouch… Did they read the lease reneal letters? did it mention any chagnes to the previous lease? If not, I’d think the management still had no leg to stand on cause tehy renewed the lease that they had aggred on before. But, the person’s original point still stands. When the contract only says two cats and you have three and management decides to change their mind, you are the one that is going to have the problem, not them because legally you signed a contract saying that you knew only two animals were allowed, and they are under no obligation to allow you three. Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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Depends on who you ask. I see no reason to support a breeder. Responsible as he or she may be, that’s still one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home.
But in this case, it seems it was more a case of adopting a cat from a breeder or not adopting a cat at all. Apparently this is not really a case of one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home. Look, I’ve known other people who tried to adopt at shelters, couldn’t, and then went to breeders. It’s not always so black and white. For example, I have a friend who wanted to adopt a kitten about six months after her cat died. The shelters she went to wouldn’t let her have a kitten because she works during the day. So she bought a kitten from a breeder. Maybe you think she should have agreed with the shelters’ policy and adopted an adult cat, but she didn’t want to. You can’t force people to adopt cats they don’t want. IMO, if in this case another shelter kitten didn’t get a home, it was not my friend’s fault–she tried. And I don’t really fault the shelters either–overall that rule is in the best interest of the kittens, but you can’t expect people who disagree not to go elsewhere.
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Actually the way you worded seemed like you only went to one and then from that experience drew conclusions that the rest of the shelters or local groups did not have compatable cats. I think you could have waited instead of going to a breeder. I never agree with Dom much but I can say he is correct in stating that no matter how responsible a breeder might be, that by supporting one that is one less cat or kitten in the shelter that loses a home. You say you work at shelters which is commendable but I have a hard time believing you had such a difficult time finding a cat. Remember cats are not like picking up a six pack at the store. It seems that you wanted the cat that ended up adopted and no other cat. Be glad that cat got adopted and hope that the feline went to a good home. If you really wanted to adopt a shelter cat you really should have waited as many cats are brought into shelters each day in this country (I am guessing you are in the U.S.) and I am sure that there was probably at least one cat that was brought in that gets along with other cats. I may not work at a shelter but I also know from reading and watching that I see plenty of cats that are turned in by humans to the shelters and that they always have a handfull of felines that get along with other cats. You also have to remember that cats also need to be introduced slowly into new households that already have cats so to find one that you feel is just perfect and will be instantly ok with other cats would be nice. However, cats are like people and I am sure that no matter how instant you think a new cat will take to your cats there is always one feline that will not like the newcomer or at least tolerates it. Cats are cats and going to a breeder for one is simply not the answer. Supporting breeders only adds to the problem of overpopulation and if you look at it this way, by going to a shelter you are already getting a cat or kitten from a breeder in a way as many of the felines who end up there are the result of someone who failed to be responsbile by spaying or neutering their cat. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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Well if that happened I would move… simple as that. I’m not hard up for cash (other than saving to own again). If they asked me to get rid of one of my animals I would ask them to find a new tenant… I cant deal with these bugs invading my home anyhow. I broke the lease on my last apartment cause my landlord was stealing our mail, and coming into our apartment whenever he wanted to (then writing notes for us about the garbage being too full, or the ash tray having too many butt’s in it). For 2K a month I didn’t think I deserved that. With this place if I felt I was being treated unfairly I would leave. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Yeah but here is the kicker here. This person said they only went to one shelter and then went to a breeder when their plan failed. I would have checked with other shelters and even the no-kill ones. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – : I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a : cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for : declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and : then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting : good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a : breeder in the first place. There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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The scary thing about this is that it just happened at a local apartment complex that two of my friends live in…they have big big dogs and now the management is saying that no dogs over 40 lbs. can live there after July 30….so either my friends have to find a new place now, not easy in a college town, almost impossible with a dog (or cat for that matter) or starve their dogs to hit the limit of 40 lbs. We all find this ridiculous as what the heck does 40 lbs. have to do with anything. BTW, this notice to tenants came AFTER everyone signed their lease renewal letters. I know a few years ago my apartment complex tried to ban cats in the building and found that if they did that, they would have a very empty apartment building as we all have cats. It’s so fun to walk outside to my car and have all these kitties to say hi to. take care – jackie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually.
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To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Yeah but what if the deception behind getting the cat that caused the mess? — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Yep, that pretty much covers it
Brad
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Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones).
Depends on who you ask. I see no reason to support a breeder. Responsible as he or she may be, that’s still one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home. Sethran
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: Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not : affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short : order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Heh, the one shelter I went to didn’t turn me down cause of asthma, but I’m not sure they asked though. Then again they let me take the cat home the same day (pretty much because he was already spayed, but filled out a questionnaire, they called my apt, things looked good, I got the cat.. I don’t even think I got interviewed or anything. Questionnaires are easy to lie on. Though I will say I think it was pretty good they insist on spaying and neutering the cat before it goes home. Personally I think it’s more convenient cause then it’s just part of the adoption fee and I don’t have to worry about getting them fixed). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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: I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a : cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for : declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and : then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting : good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a : breeder in the first place. There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Cathy — "Staccato signals of constant information…" ("The Boy in the Bubble") Paul Simon
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am sorry to hear about your cat but it seems very strange to me. First you got turned down for adoption for reasons of asthma and then lied about it and now say that your wife’s asthma was not affected by the cats as far as you know. I am curious as to what the shelter’s reasons were for turning you down for adoption? You didn’t seem to state what they said. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? We are not cat-free…we still have our other little bundle of joy; Cappuccino, a goofy little 5 year old tortoiseshell that keeps us content. She is lonely, but we do the best we can to help her along too. We have another month to go before we can get another cat. My wifes astham is not affected by the cats as far as we can tell. She is more affected by pollen and the heat. She is on Advair to deal with her asthma. Brad
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Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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I am sorry to hear about your cat but it seems very strange to me. First you got turned down for adoption for reasons of asthma and then lied about it and now say that your wife’s asthma was not affected by the cats as far as you know. I am curious as to what the shelter’s reasons were for turning you down for adoption? You didn’t seem to state what they said. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? We are not cat-free…we still have our other little bundle of joy; Cappuccino, a goofy little 5 year old tortoiseshell that keeps us content. She is lonely, but we do the best we can to help her along too. We have another month to go before we can get another cat. My wifes astham is not affected by the cats as far as we can tell. She is more affected by pollen and the heat. She is on Advair to deal with her asthma. Brad
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I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad
I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? Lauren =^..^= See my cats: http://www.picturetrail.com/mickey4paws/703043
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For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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: For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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In the mean time I regret trying to share my joy with anyone, as it has been badly received. This probably means that no one here has ever gotten a cat from a breeder, and if I want to talk about cats that I didn’t adopt I should go to another news group because my questions and comments are not welcome here… this seems a lot more like alt.cats now. Thanks to all those who have been polite, and helped me out.
Sofia, not everyone here is anti-breeder. IMO there’s nothing wrong with the choices you made. Congrats on your new kitty.
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|Ouch… Did they read the lease reneal letters? did it mention any chagnes |to the previous lease? If not, I’d think the management still had no leg |to stand on cause tehy renewed the lease that they had aggred on before. | |But, the person’s original point still stands. When the contract only says |two cats and you have three and management decides to change their mind, |you are the one that is going to have the problem, not them because |legally you signed a contract saying that you knew only two animals were |allowed, and they are under no obligation to allow you three. In the apt I live in previously, they had allowed pets with a pet deposit. On the pet deposit, and the lease there were no limits on the # of pets providing you paid the deposit. The majority of people in the complex had pets and usually that meant multiple. This did end up becoming a problem when the owner sold the building(meaning every apt needed to be inspected) and the new owner sent out and required a new lease(that specifically limited the # of pets to 1.) be signed. The funny part of it was, the apt manager came around to everyone with pets and said that if she was the one being inspected that the pets would be under the requirement. So what ended up happening is my furballs spent a day or two with friends while that went on.
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Well the shelters in my area (within 2 hours driving distance) need all the family members in your house hold to be there and fill out paper work, and also do a background check. I went to the websites and look at their adoption policies. Background check would be them calling the mgmt. office again and then me being rejected again. The cats that I mentioned that didn’t get along with other cats or dogs were from specific breed Rescues in my area. There are listings with each animal and their personality/preferences. I.e. "No Dogs" "Does not get along with other cats" were most of the ones listed. Like I said in my first post too, I would rather have a full grown cat than a kitten. I’m not the type of person that will only get a kitten or a puppy, just the opposite infact. I have never in my life had a dog from a breeder, all shelter dogs, and in one case a dog a friend of mine was going to put down cause he didn’t feel like taking care of anymore (f*cking a**hole), and I am now on my 7th dog. Although I have been around cats for long periods of time in my life, I have never personally owned one myself until a year ago, so I haven’t had much of an opportunity, minus this past year, to adopt a cat. I’m only 22 I’m sure I will adopt many in my lifetime. In the mean time I regret trying to share my joy with anyone, as it has been badly received. This probably means that no one here has ever gotten a cat from a breeder, and if I want to talk about cats that I didn’t adopt I should go to another news group because my questions and comments are not welcome here… this seems a lot more like alt.cats now. Thanks to all those who have been polite, and helped me out. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Actually the way you worded seemed like you only went to one and then from that experience drew conclusions that the rest of the shelters or local groups did not have compatable cats. I think you could have waited instead of going to a breeder. I never agree with Dom much but I can say he is correct in stating that no matter how responsible a breeder might be, that by supporting one that is one less cat or kitten in the shelter that loses a home. You say you work at shelters which is commendable but I have a hard time believing you had such a difficult time finding a cat. Remember cats are not like picking up a six pack at the store. It seems that you wanted the cat that ended up adopted and no other cat. Be glad that cat got adopted and hope that the feline went to a good home. If you really wanted to adopt a shelter cat you really should have waited as many cats are brought into shelters each day in this country (I am guessing you are in the U.S.) and I am sure that there was probably at least one cat that was brought in that gets along with other cats. I may not work at a shelter but I also know from reading and watching that I see plenty of cats that are turned in by humans to the shelters and that they always have a handfull of felines that get along with other cats. You also have to remember that cats also need to be introduced slowly into new households that already have cats so to find one that you feel is just perfect and will be instantly ok with other cats would be nice. However, cats are like people and I am sure that no matter how instant you think a new cat will take to your cats there is always one feline that will not like the newcomer or at least tolerates it. Cats are cats and going to a breeder for one is simply not the answer. Supporting breeders only adds to the problem of overpopulation and if you look at it this way, by going to a shelter you are already getting a cat or kitten from a breeder in a way as many of the felines who end up there are the result of someone who failed to be responsbile by spaying or neutering their cat. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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Don’t worry – this poster (CP) can get stuck in a groove & doesn’t budge out of it, once entrenched; happens a lot. Cathy — "Staccato signals of constant information…" ("The Boy in the Bubble") Paul Simon
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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: The scary thing about this is that it just happened at a local apartment complex : that two of my friends live in…they have big big dogs and now the management : is saying that no dogs over 40 lbs. can live there after July 30….so either my : friends have to find a new place now, not easy in a college town, almost Did their previous contract say they could have those dogs? If so the new management is either going to have to let them live there as long as their contract states or let them move out with no breaking of contract fees (as the new management broke teh contract, not them). If this is the case (which I don’t know if it is), I’d suggest your friend get a lawyer or at least fight it and tell the management that legally tehy don’t have a leg to stand on. : to do with anything. BTW, this notice to tenants came AFTER everyone signed : their lease renewal letters. Ouch… Did they read the lease reneal letters? did it mention any chagnes to the previous lease? If not, I’d think the management still had no leg to stand on cause tehy renewed the lease that they had aggred on before. But, the person’s original point still stands. When the contract only says two cats and you have three and management decides to change their mind, you are the one that is going to have the problem, not them because legally you signed a contract saying that you knew only two animals were allowed, and they are under no obligation to allow you three. Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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Depends on who you ask. I see no reason to support a breeder. Responsible as he or she may be, that’s still one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home.
But in this case, it seems it was more a case of adopting a cat from a breeder or not adopting a cat at all. Apparently this is not really a case of one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home. Look, I’ve known other people who tried to adopt at shelters, couldn’t, and then went to breeders. It’s not always so black and white. For example, I have a friend who wanted to adopt a kitten about six months after her cat died. The shelters she went to wouldn’t let her have a kitten because she works during the day. So she bought a kitten from a breeder. Maybe you think she should have agreed with the shelters’ policy and adopted an adult cat, but she didn’t want to. You can’t force people to adopt cats they don’t want. IMO, if in this case another shelter kitten didn’t get a home, it was not my friend’s fault–she tried. And I don’t really fault the shelters either–overall that rule is in the best interest of the kittens, but you can’t expect people who disagree not to go elsewhere.
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Actually the way you worded seemed like you only went to one and then from that experience drew conclusions that the rest of the shelters or local groups did not have compatable cats. I think you could have waited instead of going to a breeder. I never agree with Dom much but I can say he is correct in stating that no matter how responsible a breeder might be, that by supporting one that is one less cat or kitten in the shelter that loses a home. You say you work at shelters which is commendable but I have a hard time believing you had such a difficult time finding a cat. Remember cats are not like picking up a six pack at the store. It seems that you wanted the cat that ended up adopted and no other cat. Be glad that cat got adopted and hope that the feline went to a good home. If you really wanted to adopt a shelter cat you really should have waited as many cats are brought into shelters each day in this country (I am guessing you are in the U.S.) and I am sure that there was probably at least one cat that was brought in that gets along with other cats. I may not work at a shelter but I also know from reading and watching that I see plenty of cats that are turned in by humans to the shelters and that they always have a handfull of felines that get along with other cats. You also have to remember that cats also need to be introduced slowly into new households that already have cats so to find one that you feel is just perfect and will be instantly ok with other cats would be nice. However, cats are like people and I am sure that no matter how instant you think a new cat will take to your cats there is always one feline that will not like the newcomer or at least tolerates it. Cats are cats and going to a breeder for one is simply not the answer. Supporting breeders only adds to the problem of overpopulation and if you look at it this way, by going to a shelter you are already getting a cat or kitten from a breeder in a way as many of the felines who end up there are the result of someone who failed to be responsbile by spaying or neutering their cat. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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Well if that happened I would move… simple as that. I’m not hard up for cash (other than saving to own again). If they asked me to get rid of one of my animals I would ask them to find a new tenant… I cant deal with these bugs invading my home anyhow. I broke the lease on my last apartment cause my landlord was stealing our mail, and coming into our apartment whenever he wanted to (then writing notes for us about the garbage being too full, or the ash tray having too many butt’s in it). For 2K a month I didn’t think I deserved that. With this place if I felt I was being treated unfairly I would leave. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Yeah but here is the kicker here. This person said they only went to one shelter and then went to a breeder when their plan failed. I would have checked with other shelters and even the no-kill ones. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – : I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a : cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for : declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and : then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting : good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a : breeder in the first place. There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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The scary thing about this is that it just happened at a local apartment complex that two of my friends live in…they have big big dogs and now the management is saying that no dogs over 40 lbs. can live there after July 30….so either my friends have to find a new place now, not easy in a college town, almost impossible with a dog (or cat for that matter) or starve their dogs to hit the limit of 40 lbs. We all find this ridiculous as what the heck does 40 lbs. have to do with anything. BTW, this notice to tenants came AFTER everyone signed their lease renewal letters. I know a few years ago my apartment complex tried to ban cats in the building and found that if they did that, they would have a very empty apartment building as we all have cats. It’s so fun to walk outside to my car and have all these kitties to say hi to. take care – jackie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually.
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To play devil’s advocate if the management company changes hands the new management can enforce new rules if they wish. I’d read your lease closely and look for that clause that basically says that the management can change or enforce rules at their discretion. You may not think its fair but that is the way it goes if you are renting. Management does have the final say usually. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Yeah but what if the deception behind getting the cat that caused the mess? — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Yep, that pretty much covers it
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Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Ugh if you read my first post you would know, I did visit other shelters, I tried rescues, retired breeders, and then as a very last resort I went to a breeder. I work in a shelter, I would have loved to take any of those cats home… all I wanted to do was post some pictures not get grilled. If you really want to hear the full story and all the avenues I exhausted before coming to the decision to go to a breeder (after researching many) I will be happy to go over that with you… I didn’t do that in the original post because I didn’t realize it would be necessary, and it would have made for a very long post. I want to apologize to anyone that my post has offended. I wasn’t aware that it was going to go in this direction, or that I would be put in a position where I would have to explain the entire history of my search for another cat. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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I didn’t know the pet policy before I tried to adopt him, I looked over my lease and it didn’t say anything about a limit of pets, but when the shelter worked called (on me SECOND VISIT to this shelter) the management office and asked what their policy was someone told them limit 2 cats. When I got my apartment they knew how many pets I had, they never said it was too many. So the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I asked one of the girls about it and she said she didn’t have any problem with it. So if the building manager doesn’t care how many pets I have, and the people who work in the management office don’t care how many pets I have, but their stupid friggin policy says 2 cats is it really that wrong? The shelter I volunteer at has let other volunteers with the same restrictions I supposedly have adopt more animals out of favoritism for those people… which I can understand because they really haven’t known me long enough to make that kind of judgment. With the particular cat I was trying to adopt from the first shelter mentioned it was one that had a problem with spraying, I was willing to deal with it as he was so friendly, and I didn’t ever think he would get adopted because of that, so I sent my husband back… when he told me that cat was no longer there he also asked if I would like him to pick out another one… I said no. I’m not some kind of psycho cat hoarder or anything so I don’t get the whole red flag thing. I’m a perfectly normal person with a love for animals, I even moved into a larger apartment in my complex to accommodate the new addition. http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy I’m normal, my home is clean, my animals are happy and well taken care of. These again are pictures of them, my home, my family. -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Then why were you surprised that they turned you down? You knew the pet policy and then try to lie in order to adopt. No wonder the shelter turned you down. I mean if they see deception then why would they adopt out to you? I can see they are doing what is in the best interest for the animal and if someone uses the tactics you used to adopt then it raises a lot of red flags. What is worse getting others to cover you in the lie. I hate to say this (which may sound harsh) but you were responsible for the problem that you created. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones).
Depends on who you ask. I see no reason to support a breeder. Responsible as he or she may be, that’s still one more shelter kitten that won’t be going home. Sethran
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: Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not : affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short : order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Heh, the one shelter I went to didn’t turn me down cause of asthma, but I’m not sure they asked though. Then again they let me take the cat home the same day (pretty much because he was already spayed, but filled out a questionnaire, they called my apt, things looked good, I got the cat.. I don’t even think I got interviewed or anything. Questionnaires are easy to lie on. Though I will say I think it was pretty good they insist on spaying and neutering the cat before it goes home. Personally I think it’s more convenient cause then it’s just part of the adoption fee and I don’t have to worry about getting them fixed). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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: I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a : cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for : declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and : then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting : good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a : breeder in the first place. There’s nothing wrong with supporting a breeder. There’s something wrong with supporting a irresponsible breeder (unfortunately the irresponsible ones outnumber the responsible ones). Alice — The root cause of problems is simple overpopulation. People just aren’t worth very much any more, and they know it. Makes ‘em testy. …Bev | _,,,—,,_ Tigress /,`.-’`’ -. ;-;;,_ http://havoc.gtf.gatech.edu/tigress ’—”(_/–’ `-’_) Cat by Felix Lee.
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Here’s my guess: that she was truthful about her asthma (even if it’s not affected by cats), & the shelter was afraid she’d return the cat in short order, due to "allergies" – one of the big reasons cats are turned in. Cathy — "Staccato signals of constant information…" ("The Boy in the Bubble") Paul Simon
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am sorry to hear about your cat but it seems very strange to me. First you got turned down for adoption for reasons of asthma and then lied about it and now say that your wife’s asthma was not affected by the cats as far as you know. I am curious as to what the shelter’s reasons were for turning you down for adoption? You didn’t seem to state what they said. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? We are not cat-free…we still have our other little bundle of joy; Cappuccino, a goofy little 5 year old tortoiseshell that keeps us content. She is lonely, but we do the best we can to help her along too. We have another month to go before we can get another cat. My wifes astham is not affected by the cats as far as we can tell. She is more affected by pollen and the heat. She is on Advair to deal with her asthma. Brad
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Because although the management office knows how many pets I have, and don’t care, when a shelter calls and ask’s what their pet policy is they have to tell them limit 3 pets (for some reason only 2 of those can be cats). Since the shelter workers had already seen me there, and my mom wouldn’t cover for me if I used her address I sent my husband. The shelter I volunteer at wont let me adopt for the same reason, although they have made acceptations to this rule with some long term volunteers
I’m not much of a kitten person because you don’t know what their personality will be like when they are older. With adult cats their personality is pretty much established, same with dogs.. I’ll only adopt adults. So I’m nervous and excited at the same time!! -Sofia
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – : For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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I am sorry to hear about your cat but it seems very strange to me. First you got turned down for adoption for reasons of asthma and then lied about it and now say that your wife’s asthma was not affected by the cats as far as you know. I am curious as to what the shelter’s reasons were for turning you down for adoption? You didn’t seem to state what they said. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? We are not cat-free…we still have our other little bundle of joy; Cappuccino, a goofy little 5 year old tortoiseshell that keeps us content. She is lonely, but we do the best we can to help her along too. We have another month to go before we can get another cat. My wifes astham is not affected by the cats as far as we can tell. She is more affected by pollen and the heat. She is on Advair to deal with her asthma. Brad
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I have to wonder why you got turned down? Was your home unsuitable for a cat? Did you have problems because you are against spaying or are all for declawing. I also have to wonder why you didn’t visit another shelter and then went to a breeder? There are so many cats in shelters that are awaiting good homes so I am wondering if you fully had intended on supporting a breeder in the first place. — Cat Galaxy- The Internet radio station for cats. Meow meow meow!! http://members.cox.net/catprotector/station Real Player and Winamp: 66.28.48.193:10518 Windows Media Player http://www.live365.com/play/231353 The forum for felines everywhere. Join the Cat Galaxy Forum today! Meow! http://communities.msn.com/CatGalaxy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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My wife was turned down when we tried to adopt our first cat, Jessie, because she had asthma. We lied, and told them that Jessie would live with me, and that my then fiance was living with her mother. Got the cat no problem. Now we ahve to do it all over again, as Jessie passed away two months ago from FIP. Brad
I’m sorry to hear about Jessie. Can I ask, how will your wife deal with the new cat and her asthma? Lauren =^..^= See my cats: http://www.picturetrail.com/mickey4paws/703043
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For those who remember… I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here tomorrow!!!!! If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. -Sofia
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: For those who remember… : I tried to adopt a few times and got turned down, so sent my hubby to adopt : a cat I had totally fallen in love with (the cat that sprayed) from a : shelter that was over an hour away, the cat was already adopted. : Local rescue groups didn’t have any cats that got along with both other : cats, and dogs. So as a last resort I opted to get a kitten from a breeder, : heh after not being able to find a suitable adult cat. Well he’ll be here : tomorrow!!!!! : If anyone would like to see pictures of him (Ajax) they are at : http://photos.yahoo.com/flesh58chevy on the last page of the "Pets" folder. : Once he arrives I will take more pictures of him and post them there. He’s a sweetheart! I’m curious, though. Why were you repeatedly turned down for adoption? Priscilla — "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." – Albert Einstein
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Mrs. M replied… I am NOT the "Mrs. M" that "Dan L. Merkel" wrote about. This post gave me a bit of a start!
BTW, I don’t know anything about that company. Sorry! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -First, I realize that this is OT, but it isn’t that far off… Mrs. M. and I are about three months away from celebrating our 25th. anniversary. I’m already making some plans for the special occasion, and I want to include something especially romantic for her to wear… Anyone had any experience with "Intimate Attitudes"? They are a part of Shirley of Hollywood that specializes in fuller-figure lingerie. I know there’s been some discussion of this topic here earlier. I’ve seen a few different comapnies mentioned, both favorably and unfavorably, but not IA. Anyone have any experiece with their merchandise; quality, price, etc? Anyone have another suggestion for a better option? Thanks, and may all of you be as happy as we have been over the last 25 years! dlm — Dan L. Merkel bright.net-BRT ===== Your Local Link to the Internet in Hancock County < < =====
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First, I realize that this is OT, but it isn’t that far off… Mrs. M. and I are about three months away from celebrating our 25th. anniversary. I’m already making some plans for the special occasion, and I want to include something especially romantic for her to wear… Anyone had any experience with "Intimate Attitudes"? They are a part of Shirley of Hollywood that specializes in fuller-figure lingerie. I know there’s been some discussion of this topic here earlier. I’ve seen a few different comapnies mentioned, both favorably and unfavorably, but not IA. Anyone have any experiece with their merchandise; quality, price, etc? Anyone have another suggestion for a better option? Thanks, and may all of you be as happy as we have been over the last 25 years! dlm — Dan L. Merkel bright.net-BRT ===== Your Local Link to the Internet in Hancock County < < =====
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Mrs. M replied… I am NOT the "Mrs. M" that "Dan L. Merkel" wrote about. This post gave me a bit of a start!
BTW, I don’t know anything about that company. Sorry! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -First, I realize that this is OT, but it isn’t that far off… Mrs. M. and I are about three months away from celebrating our 25th. anniversary. I’m already making some plans for the special occasion, and I want to include something especially romantic for her to wear… Anyone had any experience with "Intimate Attitudes"? They are a part of Shirley of Hollywood that specializes in fuller-figure lingerie. I know there’s been some discussion of this topic here earlier. I’ve seen a few different comapnies mentioned, both favorably and unfavorably, but not IA. Anyone have any experiece with their merchandise; quality, price, etc? Anyone have another suggestion for a better option? Thanks, and may all of you be as happy as we have been over the last 25 years! dlm — Dan L. Merkel bright.net-BRT ===== Your Local Link to the Internet in Hancock County < < =====
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First, I realize that this is OT, but it isn’t that far off… Mrs. M. and I are about three months away from celebrating our 25th. anniversary. I’m already making some plans for the special occasion, and I want to include something especially romantic for her to wear… Anyone had any experience with "Intimate Attitudes"? They are a part of Shirley of Hollywood that specializes in fuller-figure lingerie. I know there’s been some discussion of this topic here earlier. I’ve seen a few different comapnies mentioned, both favorably and unfavorably, but not IA. Anyone have any experiece with their merchandise; quality, price, etc? Anyone have another suggestion for a better option? Thanks, and may all of you be as happy as we have been over the last 25 years! dlm — Dan L. Merkel bright.net-BRT ===== Your Local Link to the Internet in Hancock County < < =====
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